Where did it go?!!! What happened!!!! Ahhhh! With your current life, you can’t fulfill your dream! I see…..
I learned from this life, that, if I am dreaming about something, it will stay an idea until I start believing in it, then it will happen. You might tell me that you believed in yours but didn’t happen…it seems that your understanding of believing is different than mine! Saying that you will get what you want is only one part. You need to feel it deep inside your heart. When you listen to yourself, you will be telling you that this is happening; it is just a matter of time…
So you have a dream,
Can you visualize it happening?
Can you locate it in time and place?
Are you walking towards it or standing here watching it with some popcorn?
How to walk towards it? Well, decide the first step and take it. Once done, decide on the next step and realize it. And steps shall follow. What? You thought it is a one-shot deal? Think again my friend 🙂
When you try to think of all steps at once, nothing happens because all the difficulties will start popping up. Wait till you get to the step with difficulty then deal with it. Sometimes, by the time you get there, it disappears by itself. At some point, you might need to delay things for other reasons. Fine, it happens to all of us, but resume back as soon as you can. You don’t have to reach your dream tomorrow, just make sure you reach it at the end.
Get the necessary tools, the necessary expertise on your way. If you can’t afford it financially, free tools are everywhere on the internet, verify forums, people might be talking about it. Check with people who did it before, they will be excited to share their experience with you!
Don’t waste your energy thinking about step 6 when you are only at step 2. Concentrate on the work of now, this way you will finish it faster and better. Your step 6 might change by the time you get to it; so you would have thought about it for nothing! Thinking about later steps is a way our unconscious tricks us to procrastinate what we have to do now. Don’t fall for it!
Maybe in the middle of the road you decide to stop, maybe you realize it is not really what you want, maybe you can’t reach it for now….one thing for sure, you will never regret trying.
You need to get buffaloing about your dream, yes, you heard me right, buffaloing, from buffalo. Nothing should stop you; you walk towards it with one thing in mind, reaching it.
One thing you need to equip yourself with for this journey is patience and persistency. Everything shall happen when it should happen and excellence comes from repetition.
And dare to dream big. You will not only surprise yourself, you will scare yourself of what you are able to do!
According to Mark Twain: “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbour. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
According to me, let your dreams drive your life, not the other way around…