2015-03-13 – Friday Whisper – Seen, Safe and Understood…

I was listening to one of the videos of Anthony Robbins about what makes relationship works; one of the things he said was: “If you want to keep your woman happy and satisfied, you need to know this: A woman needs to be Seen, Safe and Understood.”

She needs to be seen by her man, needs to feel that she is getting his attention…Don’t address her only when you want to ask her to get you something, ask her about something, or blame her for something…

She needs to feel safe… that her partner will be her refuge, will defend her, will provide for her, and will be there for her when she needs him most…Don’t be the first person she ran away from, rather than run towards him…

She needs to feel understood, heard… She needs to feel that she can communicate what is bothering her and he will be there to comfort her, trying to understand her pain… Don’t be there waiting for her to finish her argument, only to start responding to prove yourself right…It is more important to be in love than to be right…

Oh! And when you get intimate with her, shower her with kisses and touches everywhere…make sure that you are making love to her rather than just having sex…

Leo Buscaglia, an American author and motivational speaker, said: “Too often we underestimate the power of a touch, a smile, a kind word, a listening ear, an honest compliment, or the smallest act of caring, all of which have the potential to turn a life around.”

And a quote from an unknown said: “Every woman’s heart has instructions. They are written in her eyes, in her smile, through her actions and in her tears. All she has to do is run into someone who cares enough to read them.”

The problem is not that your woman wakes up one day hating you… the problem is if she wakes up feeling indifferent towards you…

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Rania Hammoud, Life Coach

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